Love Thy Neighbor, and Fuck Thy Hater

and I give my tower teeth, and I watch it bite the sky


a few quick reminders:

- that thing you did that was kind of embarrassing and weird, everyone else forgot about that already

- you look fine today, if you can’t notice something on your face standing 6 feet from a mirror then nobody else will either

- if something is out of your control, do not let yourself or anyone else expect you to deal with it alone

- social lives can go through cycles sometimes, if you feel like your friends are all ignoring you for no reason they’re probably just busy with other things

- if you can’t stop thinking about someone or something, find something mentally occupying to do like reading a book or watching a movie. it won’t solve any serious problems but you will feel better

- nothing will always be easy, if you’re trying then that should be good enough for anyone. if it’s not then you’re talking with the wrong people

- never underestimate the importance of going to bed, if it’s dark outside and you feel bad just go to bed and deal with your problems the next day

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My dogs look like they’re taking a prom pic

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Asker Anonymous Asks:
wait, if plantations are the historical remnant of america's most unspeakable act as a nation, shouldn't they be treated the same as, like, concentration camps in europe? don't people have weddings there? that's fucked up.
fuckthyhater fuckthyhater Said:


Yeah, it’s almost like, as a nation, we’re racist as all fuck.


I don’t think feminism stands to gain anything by pretending that it’s easy to be a feminist. When I see or hear things like “80% of the world is feminist, a feminist is anyone who believes women should be equal,” I’m not comforted. I don’t see what the movement has to gain by pretending that misogyny is not the default in most people, and that being a feminist is as easy as buying into a buzzword. Feminism is hard. It requires examining our own beliefs and behaviors, a constant struggle to root out misogynist and patriarchal beliefs and behaviors, analysis of how our actions and the actions of others are harmful to women, and a conscious effort to change. Not just one time, but every day. To pretend that anyone who “believes in equality” is automatically a feminist is to leave the status quo untouched, to dress up oppressive behavior as liberating if we affix a “likes women” badge to it. To pretend that the fix is easy is to ignore that the disease permeates every aspect of our society, and to avoid naming the problem and telling people that work is actually involved is to fail women in the name of making others comfortable.

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Asker ikeacasillas Asks:
1, 6, 10, 14, 41
fuckthyhater fuckthyhater Said:

1. What house will you be in?

gryffindor, with a touch of the ravenclaw. I’m super hung up about doing the right thing and braving my fears for the sake of other’s well being (even when doing so is dangerous or unhealthy for me), so even though I want to go into the literal business of knowledge, my gryffindor side wins.

6. What’s the core of your wand?

unicorn hair! though I wish it was dragon heartstring tbh.

10. Do you think you’ll have friends from other houses?


14. Do you think you’ll be a prefect or head girl/boy?

I am such a fucking suck up and overachiever, so yeah. almost certainly.

41. What classes will you take for n.e.w.t.s?

astronomy and transfiguration


i have no problem with pointing out that anyone of any gender can be an abuser, rapist, pedophile etc because that’s absolutely true.

but the problem with always emphasizing “yes but it happens to everyone, not just women (or people of colour, or trans* people, etc)!” is that it depoliticizes the issue.

violence is not an accident, it is reflective of social power relations that permeate society at every level

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if it’s late enough and you’re lonely enough, the carly rae jepsen lyric “before you came into my life i missed you so bad” starts seeming increasingly deep and emotionally complex

3:02 AM and this fucking lyric looks like fucking nietzsche

stare into the abyss and the abyss will call you maybe

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